Getting a Second Opinion

A diagnosis that does not feel right or a misdiagnosis can be overwhelming. You may have many questions about your child’s diagnosis. You may also be curious about treatment options.

It is normal to get a second opinion when your child is faced with a health issue. Many people do it. And many doctors are comfortable with you getting that second opinion.¹

What is a second opinion?

A second opinion is when you seek medical advice from another doctor to get a different perspective on a health condition. In the case of your child's potential Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) diagnosis, that doctor will review your child’s medical history and evaluate their current condition. They will then offer their perspective on your child’s diagnosis and make suggestions for treatment.¹

Why seek another doctor’s opinion?

There are many reasons why you might want to get a second opinion, such as:^1,2

• Your child’s doctor cannot give you a clear diagnosis
• Your child is diagnosed with a rare disease
• You want a different perspective or a specialist in your child’s condition
• You want to be aware of every possible treatment option
• Your child is not responding to treatment
• Your current doctor is not explaining things in a way you understand
• You want peace of mind about your child’s condition
• Your insurance requires a second opinion before covering a treatment

Some people seek out second or even third opinions after an initial diagnosis and before they begin treatment. But this is not the only time to talk to another doctor. If you are unhappy at any time with your child’s diagnosis or treatment, or you want a different viewpoint, it is okay to get help from other doctors.

How to get a second opinion

It can feel stressful getting a second opinion. A good place to start is with your child’s current doctor. Be open and honest with them. Tell them you are thinking of getting a second opinion. Ask them if they have anyone they would recommend.^1,2

If they cannot refer you to anyone, there are other ways of finding another doctor for a second opinion. Consider asking any of the following for a recommendation:^1,2

• Your local hospital or clinic
• Your health insurance
• A medical association focused on your child’s condition
• Trusted friends and family

How to prepare for a second opinion

You have decided to seek a second opinion and have made an appointment. Great! Here are some things to help you get ready:^1,2

• Contact your insurance provider to see if a second opinion is covered.
• Gather all documents and test results and bring them to the new doctor. Or, have your child’s current doctor forward their medical information to the new doctor.
• Be prepared with a list of questions you want answered.

This is a common step

Do not worry about upsetting a doctor’s feelings by getting a second opinion. Many doctors are open and encouraging when their patients want to get another doctor’s perspective.¹

Your child’s doctor may even encourage you to seek a second opinion. After all, another doctor may know more about issues that affect their specific case and diagnosis. Speaking to another doctor may help you find the best treatment options for your child’s specific needs.¹

What to do after

If the second doctor’s diagnosis and treatment recommendation is the same, you can feel comfort in knowing that you worked to get all the information possible.

But what if the diagnosis or treatment plan differs? Take some time to review both assessments. Choose the one that is right for your child’s current situation. Ask the doctor what other people have done in your situation. Consider talking with your child’s first doctor about the second opinion. Or, have both doctors discuss your child’s case with each other.^1,2

Second opinions can help to confirm a diagnosis, how advanced a disease is, and the right care plan. The path you should take – whether you get a second opinion or more – depends on your situation and what feels right to you.